人生的八个经典问题 (ZT)

问题一:如果你家附近有一家餐厅,东西又贵又难吃,桌上还爬着蟑螂,你会因为它很近很方便,就一而再、再而三地光临吗?
  回答:你一定会说,这是什么烂问题,谁那么笨,花钱买罪受?
    可同样的情况换个场合,自己或许就做类似的蠢事。
    不少男女都曾经抱怨过他们的情人或配偶品性不端,三心二意,不负责任。明知在一起没什么好的结果,怨恨已经比爱还多,但却“不知道为什么”还是要和他搅和下去,分不了手。说穿了,只是为了不甘,为了习惯,这不也和光临餐厅一样?
    –做人,为什么要过于执著?!
  
    问题二:如果你不小心丢掉100块钱,只知道它好像丢在某个你走过的地方,你会花200块钱的车费去把那100块找回来吗?
    回答:一个超级愚蠢的问题。
    可是,相似的事情却在人生中不断发生。做错了一件事,明知自己有问题,却怎么也不肯认错,反而花加倍的时间来找藉口,让别人对自己的印象大打折扣。被人骂了一句话,却花了无数时间难过,道理相同。为一件事情发火,不惜损人不利已,不惜血本,不惜时间,只为报复,不也一样无聊?
    失去一个人的感情,明知一切已无法挽回,却还是那么伤心,而且一伤心就是好几年,还要借酒浇愁,形销骨立。其实这样一点用也没有,只是损失更多。
    –做人,干吗为难自己?!
  
    问题三:你会因为打开报纸发现每天都有车祸,就不敢出门吗?
    回答:这是个什么烂问题?当然不会,那叫因噎废食。
    然而,有不少人却曾说:现在的离婚率那么高,让我都不敢谈恋爱了。说得还挺理所当然。也有不少女人看到有关的诸多报道,就对自己的另一半忧心忡忡 
             –做人,先要相信自己。
  
    问题四:你相信每个人随便都可以成功立业吗?
    回答:当然不会相信。
    但据观察,有人总是在听完成功人士绞尽脑汁的建议,比如说,多读书,多练习之后,问了另一个问题?那不是很难?
    我们都想在3分钟内学好英文,在5分钟内解决所有难题,难道成功是那么容易的吗?改变当然是难的。成功只因不怕困难,所以才能出类拔萃。
    有一次坐在出租车上,听见司机看到自己前后都是高档车,兀自感叹:“唉,为什么别人那么有钱,我的钱这么难赚?”
    我心血来潮,问他:“你认为世上有什么钱是好赚的?”他答不出来,过了半晌才说:好像都是别人的钱比较好赚。
    其实任何一个成功者都是艰辛取得。我们实在不该抱怨命运。
    –做人,依靠自己
 
问题五:你认为完全没有打过篮球的人,可以当很好的篮球教练吗?
    回答:当然不可能,外行不可能领导内行。
    可是,有许多人,对某个行业完全不了解,只听到那个行业好赚钱,就马上开起业来了。
    我看过对穿着没有任何口味、或根本不在乎穿着的人,梦想却是开间服装店;不知道电脑怎么开机的人,却想在网上聊天,结果道听途说,却不反省自己是否专业能力不足,只抱怨时不我与。
    –做人,量力而行。
  
    问题六:相似但不相同的问题:你是否认为,篮球教练不上篮球场,闭着眼睛也可以主导一场完美的胜利?
    回答:有病啊,当然是不可能的。
    可是却有不少朋友,自己没有时间打理,却拼命投资去开咖啡馆,开餐厅,开自己根本不懂的公司,火烧屁股一样急着把辛苦积攒的积蓄花掉,去当一个稀里糊涂的投资人。亏的总是比赚的多,却觉得自己是因为运气不好,而不是想法出了问题。
    –做人,记得反省自己。
  
  
    问题七:你宁可永远后悔,也不愿意试一试自己能否转败为胜?
    解答:恐怕没有人会说:“对,我就是这样的孬种”吧。
    然而,我们却常常在不该打退堂鼓时拼命打退堂鼓,为了恐惧失败而不敢尝试成功。
    以关颖珊赢得2000年世界花样滑冰冠军时的精彩表现为例:她一心想赢得第一名,然而在最后一场比赛前,她的总积分只排名第三位,在最后的自选曲项目上,她选择了突破,而不是少出错。在4分钟的长曲中,结合了最高难度的三周跳,并且还大胆地连跳了两次。她也可能会败得很难看,但是她毕竟成功了。
    她说:“因为我不想等到失败,才后悔自己还有潜力没发挥。”
    一个中国伟人曾说;胜利的希望和有利情况的恢复,往往产生于再坚持一下的努力之中。
    –做人,何妨放手一搏。
  
  
    问题八:你的时间无限,长生不老,所以最想做的事,应该无限延期?
    回答:不,傻瓜才会这样认为。
    然而我们却常说,等我老了,要去环游世界;等我退休,就要去做想做的事情;等孩子长大了,我就可以……
    我们都以为自己有无限的时间与精力。其实我们可以一步一步实现理想,不必在等待中徒耗生命。如果现在就能一步一步努力接近,我们就不会活了半生,却出现自己最不想看到的结局。
    –做人,要活在当下.

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2 Responses to 人生的八个经典问题 (ZT)

  1. Dennis says:

    hmmm…wats all this say? translation please

  2. xiang says:

    since i am so free today… i’ll do u a favoritEight classic problems of life (ZT) The question: If you have a restaurant near the East and the West also expensive and unpalatable, the table was also a cockroach crawling on all fours, you will be very convenient because it is close on time and again to visit it? Answer: You must say that the question of what is rotten, who那么笨,罪受money? The same situation could be another occasion, perhaps on their own to do a similar folly. Many men and women have complained about their misconduct nature lover or spouse, half-hearted and irresponsible. Knowing that with no good result, resentment has been more than love, but "I do not know why" or to mix it with him, not at hand. To put it bluntly, is unwilling to, in order to custom, this is not also to the same restaurant? – Man, why should we be too persistent? ! Second problem: If you accidentally throw away 100 money, only know that it seems lost in a place where you come, you will spend money fares 200 to 100 to find that back? Answer: a super-stupid question. However, similar things in life continue to occur. One thing wrong, they know they have problems, but how it refuses to admit its faults, but to spend double the time to find an excuse to let others reduced their own impression. Being attacked for saying, but time spent countless sad, the same reason. One thing to get angry, at the detriment of loss has been, at the original capital, at the time, only for revenge, not too boring? The loss of a person’s feelings, knowing that everything is irreparable, it is so sad, but sad that a few years, but also a heavy drinker,骨立-shaped pin. In fact, this point has not used, but more losses. – Man, why make things difficult for themselves? ! Three: You will open the newspaper and found a car accident every day, did not dare to go out on it? Answer: This is what bad problem? Of course not,因噎废食called. However, many people have said: The divorce rate is so high now, so I will never dare to love the. A matter of course quite right. Many women see the many reports, on the other half worried about their own – Man, we must trust themselves. Four: Do you believe that not everyone can successfully establishing it? Answer: Of course do not believe. However, it was observed, it was always successful in listening to the recommendations of brains, for example, to read more books, and more after practice to ask another question? It was not difficult? We all want to learn in English within 3 minutes, 5 minutes to solve all problems, it is so easy to succeed you? Of course it is difficult to change. Not afraid of success because of the difficulties, it can be outstanding. On one occasion sitting in a taxi, the driver heard all see their before and after the high-end cars,兀自sigh: "Oh, why people so rich, so难赚my money?" Whim, I asked him: "What do you think the world of好赚money?" He not answer, had said for a long while: it seems that other people’s money好赚comparison. In fact, any success is difficult to obtain. We really should not complain about destiny. – Life, relying on its own! Five: Do you think there is no person who played basketball, can be a very good basketball coach it? Answer: of course, impossible, impossible for outsiders led by non-professionals. However, there are many people, a total lack of understanding of a particular industry, industries that have only heard good money, it started right away to the industry. I have read there is no taste to wear, or simply do not care about the people wearing, it is the dream of a clothing store-room; do not know how the computer boot, but would like to chat online, the result of hearsay, but whether they reflect a lack of professionalism and only I am not complaining. – A man, and act within our capability. Six: similar but not the same question: Do you think, do not shot a basketball coach pitch, eyes closed can lead to a perfect victory? Answer: sick, ah, of course, is impossible. But there are a lot of friends, did not have time to take care of themselves, but desperately investment to open coffee shops, the restaurants, to open their own companies do not understand, burning ass hard as eager to spend their savings savings to the稀里糊涂when a investors. Loss is always more than earned, but feel that they are due to bad luck, rather than a problem with the idea. – Man, I remember that reflect on their own. Seven: You would never regret it, they were reluctant to try what they could achieve victory? Answer: I am afraid no one would say: "Yes, I was such a孬种"吧. However, we should not back down when the often desperate retreat, in order to fear of failure and success did not dare try. Michelle Kwan to win the world figure skating champion in 2000 when the brilliant performance as an example: She wanted to win the first place, but in the last game before the total score, she only ranked third in the final song of the video-on-demand projects She chose to break through, rather than fewer mistakes. In the four minutes long and curly, the combination of the highest degree of difficulty of the jump, and even boldly jumped twice. She may also lose a very ugly, but she is a success. She said: "Because I do not want to wait for failure, only to regret their own did not have the potential to play." A great man once said, China; hope of victory and the restoration of a favorable combination of circumstances, often have to insist on some of the effort. – Life, why not rejections. Eight issues: your time unlimited, eternal youth, the most wanted to do, it should be postponed indefinitely? Answer: No, a fool would think so. However, we have often said, and I am getting old and going around the world; waiting for me to retire, it is necessary to do what we want to do; such as children grow up, I can … … We all think that they had unlimited time and energy. In fact, we can achieve the desired step-by-step, do not wait for consumption in the lives of believers. If the efforts now will be able to step-by-step approach, we will not live a life, it appears most do not want to see the outcome. – Life, it is necessary to live in the present.a special thx to "http://translate.google.com/translate_t#"

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