Category Archives: my words of ignorance

multiverse

was watching a video on TED today, and it was thought provoking… with the hectic life, i have forgotten my interest in astrology…. it’s amazing how grand the universe or the multiverse is compared to our little lives….whatever we are … Continue reading

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why i don’t believe

so another piece of memory popped back in my mind today for some reason… i’ve had several encounters with Christianity, and here’s one of them… It was back in middle school, and I went with my cousin to a Friday … Continue reading

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universe

you know.. it’s so curious how humans is the only life form on earth that wonders about meaning of life, and the greater universe… it seems like the only thing other life forms seem to care about is reproduction and … Continue reading

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snowboarding lesson #3

bent your knees!!  stay low for more control this is a short lesson… but i have been stuck in attempt to carve for 3 trips, and it was getting frustrating.. and finally this time i realized what i was doing … Continue reading

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主客之道

妈の。。。。 做人真难。。。请原谅我粗口。。。 不过真的。。我说过我很喜欢中国人的人情味。。。 很有待宾之道。。。但是有时候大家客套得实在太恶劣了。。。 主人一个劲得要给予。。。客人则一个劲得推。。。 必要吗。。。 搞得接受“恩惠”比被谋杀还难受。。。有时候如果主人是真心真意的想请客, 就让他请呗。。。其实接受他人的好意也是对他们的认可, 同时也可以让他们自我感觉良好。。。自己又可以讨上“便宜”。。。双赢,何乐而不为呢? 要是真心过意不去,或者心存感激,再找一次机会回报不就行了? 至于那些不是真心真意的,稍微推辞给他们台阶下就好了,要是他们继续虚情假意,那就没办法了,照样大胆接受,他们自找的呗。。。 我觉得做人就不应该太做作。。。 也许你是真的不想欠人家人情, 你表明态度就好。。 所以主人呢,也不要太勉强客人。。。 你要招待他们的主要目的是让他们开心。。。如果你的举动让他们感到不自在,不心安。。。就算他们勉强接受了你的好意, 也落了个不开心。。何必呢。。。。 这世界就不能简单点。。。 是就是是,不是就是不是吗??!!! 我觉得做为客人最主要的是怀有一颗感激的心,适当得接受主人的好意,以后记住要待他更好。。。 客气的根本来由应该是不要让人们把人家的好意当成理所当然。。。客气和好客是好的习俗, 但是不能太过分了。。。 搞得大家拉拉扯扯那么尴尬。。。也许在老一辈人的眼中,我不懂待客之道。。但是其实我很矛盾的。。。有时候我根本不在意花多少钱或者牺牲多少来招待我的客 人。。。因为他们开心我们也会开心。。。但是我会因为怕他们不自在而故意减低我对他们的照顾。。。 比如说客人来我家了,我爸妈会觉得应该把床让给客人,自己睡air bed。 但在我看来,这样倒让客人觉得内疚,搞得他们下次都不敢来做客了。。。 哎。。。说到底。。我也不知道怎么做是对的。。。 不过大家记住,以后如果我到你们家做客,随便点,不要刻意照顾我, 别让我内疚。。。。而来我家做客呢,也随意点,不用客气, 要什么尽管开口,让我享受一下做主人的充实感。。 out…. XD

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snowboarding lesson #2

tip#1: put your weight on your front foot!!  although it’s scary, because you’ll feel like you’re flying down the slope.. but it’s a fear that must be overcome… it’s the same principle for skiing, lean forward (i.e. hip forward) #2: … Continue reading

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on BS

ok, so I’m not the only one who think my RE teacher is full of it…. *phew*… i thought i was being too critical… seriously.. he reminds me of Bush all the time.. =P He said he got masters from … Continue reading

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